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5 Sex Tips for Every 20-Something Gay Guy Out There

Yes, we are all so self-confident that we really do think we don’t need any advice. But, if you actually took a couple of minutes anytime you saw an article on that topic, you would be three times a lover you are now. So, without further ado take a look at this list of five most important sex tips for every 20-something gay guy out there. It doesn’t matter if you just came out or you’ve been out of the closet for a long time, and it doesn’t really matter if you’re a top or a bottom, these tips might help you more than you think. If you’re a heterosexual and still reading this – take a look, you might learn something you haven’t known before:

Keep it clean and safe
The most important tip ever is to keep yourself clean, as not many of us like it THAT dirty. No matter whether you give or receive, regular hygiene is a must, and not only for a gay guy. Wouldn’t you like to rim or give head to something spotless? That’s right. Another thing that you should always have in mind is to practice safe sex. Recent studies have shown that there is an increasing number of HIV positive gay guys among the African-American and Latino community, so practicing safe sex, even if you don’t like it, is definitely something you should do. However, if you’re really not into that – take your partner and go get yourselves tested. It’s not expensive and it will only take a couple of minutes.

What that mouth do (part 1)
No, we’re not talking about oral sex (yet). One of the best sex weapons out there is definitely your tongue and the power of words. During foreplay and sex, it is very important that you speak. Don’t make a mistake though, we’re not talking about regular conversation here. Tell your partner everything you want him to do to you, or the nasty things you want to do to him. This will definitely enhance the sexual satisfaction for the both of you. If you accept this tip and do that mouth magic while you’re hopping up and down, your partner will definitely be very grateful.

Make your partner relax
There’s nothing more annoying than telling someone to calm down when they’re upset. Here, things are no different: if your partner is experiencing pain (that is if he’s new to gay sex), telling him to relax is just not enough. This is what foreplay is there for: take your time to make your partner comfortable – talk, cuddle, kiss. Once you’re naked, take your tongue downtown to calm the muscles down there. Rimming your partner a bit if he’s about to receive your package will do the trick. Also, use your favourite lube to make the sex smell nice and more comfortable an enjoyable for the both of you.

Thank you Kylie Minogue for this term! Getting enough sexercise is never a bad thing, and you can do this in multiple ways. For example, no matter if you’re a top or a bottom, doing yoga can increase your flexibility in bed and thus definitely make your partner want sex once again shortly after ejaculation. However, if you are a receiver, make sure to exercise your anus as much as you can to ensure maximum satisfaction. Doing this with sex toys such as the Aneros stimulator or a dildo of the size of your man’s penis will not only increase your satisfaction while masturbating, but you will be more prepared in bed as well.

What that mouth do (part 2)
Now we’re talking about oral sex! Rimming and giving a blowjob is definitely not a taboo topic anymore, and doing this as much as you can is definitely a good way to go. No matter if you’re a 20-, 30- or 40-something gay guy, performing oral sex even if you know that penetration cannot happen is a thing now and it will definitely spice up your sex life. If you’re, let’s say, at a restaurant with friends, take your partner to the toilet and have two to three minutes of happiness there – the sex that will follow after the dinner is going to be groundbreaking. Sex is not only about the actual penetration, it’s everything that comes before, during and after it. And if you want a steady, healthy sexual relationship, your tongue is the key.

As you can see, all of the tips above are rather simple, yet many forget about these. Put your self-confidence on the side, take your time and think about the things you will do this weekend. Maybe we haven’t told you anything you didn’t already know, but we sure did give you several new ideas, right?

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Images by Jarrad Raju 



Brisbears crown Mr Bear Queensland 2017

Saturday night, 21 October 2017 - Brisbears Social club crowned their winner of the annual Mr Bear Queensland competition.

The winner of the title was Alex (pictured) - who hails originally from Italy.

The event rounds out a series of events for the club during their Northern Exposure festival.

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(Photo: Cameron Darling / Facebook)


Hot Aussie Firemen with Aussie animals

The 2018 Australian Firefighters Calendar is here, and it’s pretty much the only reason we’re excited for the new year to begin.

Since 1993, the Land Down Under has been gracing us each fall with a (literally) smoking bounty of rock-hard abs, biceps of steel, and turnout coats, and the latest edition certainly does not disappoint. You have your choice between hot firefighters posing with zoo animals, hot firefighters holding puppies, or just hot firefighters being hot, and – blessed be – they offer international shipping.

The proceeds are going to the Children’s Hospital Foundation, so you could also order all three, you know, for the sake of the children.

Take it all in for yourself below, though you might want to keep a cold, damp towel nearby, in case of… Smoke inhalation.

More info: Australian Firefighters Calendar


Matty brings the hotty hot hot hot to Brisbane

We have been obsessing over Matt's pics for a while now and his cheeky sense of humour and body-ody-ody realness shines through in all his social media shots... it makes us want to head to Brisbane and train with him one on one at his gym :) 

This guy is a treat on the eyes and a real Aussie bloke - so we hope you enjoy!


h/t the fabulous 


We say hello to Ginger Eddie

We first met Eddie at last years Mardi Gras in Sydney and boy were we impressed. A total sweetheart and happy to chat with fans, friends, admirers and yes, even us. We then saw him strut the runway at the Marco Marco fashion show this year and were blown away by his presence.

So we decided to delve into the depths of Eddie's photo history and share some of our favourite shots with you.


Thor-geous Chris Hemsworth bangs his hammer about not being in the latest Avengers Movie

chrisarmsHe wondered if this is just the "kids" scrapping about while the "adults" sit on the sidelines in silence. Hemsworth than worried whether he’s not worthy of being involved, but that was quickly disproved when he "called" his hammer Mjolnir to his hand. His confidence renewed, he declared the rest of us Midgardians "pathetic" and "flew" off, complete with whooshing sound.

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